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Gossipping

  This is occured when two or more people gathers. Most people find it interesting to gossip. Gossiping is discussing in a gathering about someone's life or any incident or happenings of someone else. However there's an opinion that this gossiping is not a good habit. Because mainly it wastes your valuable time. Time is worth as Gold. So if you spend your that much worthy time in discussing about other peoples' life incidents which is very useless to your life. Hence it is so apparent that it can be considered as a bad habit. On the other hand it seems that this can be some sort of stress releasing option too. Because people have problems and are tensed so if they can focus on something apart from their lives, it helps them forget or just release from their problems for a moment. 

Gossiping has another aspect too. That is when gossipping, people come to know about someone's life and they will be able to learn things relating to their lives. So gossipping is also can be called as News too. So actually it is indeed very important to know what happens surrounding us and it causes us to think for a moment and direct our lives in a better way. Because people encountering problems or fall in predicaments mainly because of their lack of awareness and unknowingness in many things associated with their lives. I believe that gossipping is a sort of way of learning about other people's lives. Learning from other people's lives   is important at times of taking decisions about our lives by looking at their incidents' outcomes and you come to learn about people and about some unusual personalities that you need to be very careful of, so you are able to be watchful if needed when you'll have to associate with those people, if you know them beforehand by this way. Also you can help others to choose people to associate and help them get rid of associating dangerous personalities. 

Gossiping is not bad and not good too. Gossipping is fine as long as it delivers only the truth and doesn't harm anyone by any means. Unless it really can damage the society, and cause a lot of issues among the people and it may even lead to fights as well.  People having bad attitudes and who are selfish find it's interesting to spread rumours among people. So first of all you need to be careful when associating with such people and about whatever they say you've got to listen to with carefully and clearly. When gossiping some people are used to insult others which is a very bad behaviour and it will destroy someone's reputation and if you ever joined to such a discussion, you are also assisting in creating a bad image of the person to the society. So whenever a discussion to make false rumours occurs don't be backward to raise your voice and to correct their huge mistake whether they do it intentionally or not. As you can see, gossipping has both good and bad sides. However I don't recommend anyone to involve in gossipping. Because gossipping is mostly not a good thing to do. Make sure you are not going to make it a habit and waste your valuable time and energy. As long as you don't harm anyone in anyway by involving in this gossipping like action it will not be a bad thing to do when you are in like stressful situations. However make sure you have a productive and more meaningful hobby to involve in. Gossipping can cause you to avoid focusing on important tasks, or moments. It makes you forget and miss important opportunities for a better life. 

Always make sure that you maintain your social life positively. Since gossipping is not recommended as a good hobby, you may involve in gossipping discussions only when you feel sort of tensed or when you are bored. But when you are feeling bored you should defineatly try alternative productive ways to spend your time richly and significantly. 


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